Online Workshop
Discussion: How do you define stress? The dictionary defines stress as “a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting
from adverse or very demanding circumstances.” When we’re feeling overloaded, threatened or fearful – stressed – our bodies
instinctively make more adrenaline, our breathing and heartrate change, and our muscles tense, which can all cause headaches,
exhaustion, irritability, and an inability to concentrate. Stress cannot be escaped or ignored, and everyone can sense its presence.
Imagine immersing a sponge in a bucketful of water and holding it there until it’s completely saturated. When you pull the sponge
out of the water, even if you pretend it’s perfectly dry, it naturally drips on everything. When you are immersed in stress and reach
“emotional saturation” – that “I just can’t take any more!” point – that’s when, even if you pretend you’re perfectly fine, everyone
around you is affected by your attitude, words and actions. Naturally, you drip stress like that messy sponge.
What do you do with a soaked sponge? Hold it over a bucket and “express” the excess water. “Express” means to squeeze out. Self-
expression is simply the practice of squeezing out our saturated minds, hearts and bodies to relieve stress and improve our
quality of life. The “bucket” might be meditation, working out, time outdoors, journaling, music, painting, dancing, cooking,
gardening, fixing a car, building something or countless other activities that can restore our capacity to absorb life.
We’ve all tried to be “super sponges” – taking care of other people by pushing ourselves and pretending we’re fine, until we
explode and hurt the very people we’re trying to protect or impress, which only adds to our distress. Eventually, experience
teaches us the humility and wisdom to admit and respect our natural limits.
STRESS: No Need to Make a Mess
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Lesson 1
Handout:
‘The Purpose of Crying’
Resume Discussion: Until we squeeze out our sponge, we can’t absorb any more. When we can’t or won’t express ourselves, we
get so full of stress and old emotions that we can’t feel new ones. We become numb, insensitive or emotionally dead. If someone
demands a genuine emotional response from us, we might even feel threatened, get angry and explode.
Threats to health, life, love, security are all stressful. They cause suffering and make us vulnerable, but they also transform us.
Stress can be what inspires us to re-evaluate our lifestyles and priorities. By understanding our weaknesses, we can discover new
physical, mental and spiritual strength.
Appropriate self-expression is the key to relieving stress, protecting ourselves and others from hurtful attitudes, words and
actions, and maintaining our health and stability.
Handout:
‘
People with Anxiety Disorders are Hiding these 5 Superpowers’
Meditation and Writing Prompt: Sit up, feet flat on the floor, spine straight, head lifted. Breathe deeply, relax, focus
inward. Remember a personal experience when you held in too much stress. What happened? How did it feel? Begin
writing when you’re ready.
Handout:
‘
Harvard Unveils MRI Study Proving Meditation Literally Rebuilds the Brain's Gray Matter in 8 Weeks’
Read aloud: I encourage everyone to share, but will respect your privacy. Also, although I will occasionally make
suggestions ondealing with personal situations, members of the group should be cautious about offering unsolicited
advice.
Conclusion: Stress is normal. Notice your body’s physical early warning signs. Restore balance by doing something.
Breathe, write feelings and fears, do your best in the moment then reward yourself with something that restores your
sense of peace.
Break / Stretch
Meditation and Writing Prompt: Sit up, feet flat on the floor, spine straight, head lifted. Breathe deeply, relax, focus
inward. Stress is a form of suffering. Do you believe that good can come from suffering? Are you grateful for anything
you suffered through in your past? If so, why? Write when you’re ready.
Read aloud
Conclusion:
Stress is a natural response to being alive. It’s how we feel when we’re suffering through change, evolving
mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.
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